We’re a pretty family-centric group of people here in Nebraska, and we’re always looking forward to the next family get-together. Inevitably, though, someone will have to leave the gathering at some point to go home. It’s not a short or easy process; we have a kind of goodbye ritual that we go through every time. How many of these do you recognize in your own family?
- The “Alright, I guess we should get out of your hair” stage.
Hinterhaus Productions/DigitalVision via Getty Images It’s getting dark, or maybe the kids are getting cranky - either way, you know you’ve got to start wrapping it up and making your way toward the car.
- But wait - you can’t leave without some of these leftovers!
Amy Newton-McConnel/iStock / Getty Images Plus via Getty Images No matter how many people show up or how hungry they are, there are always leftovers. Don’t even fight it, just take your share.
- The first round of hugs.
Oliver Rossi/DigitalVision via Getty Images Don’t leave anyone out! These hugs have to last until the next time you get together with the family.
- Planning out the route home.
shapecharge/E+ via Getty Images Typically, the older people of the family will give some advice - welcome or not - on the best way to get home. Remember there’s construction on the highway!
- Relating one or more stories of accidents that happened nearby recently.
JackF/ iStock / Getty Images Plus via Getty Images Just to make sure the people who are leaving are extra careful driving home, they’ll be treated to several cautionary stories. You know, Mrs. So-and-So hit a deer just up the road last week so you’d better keep an eye out!
- Hand on the doorknob, inching out slowly.
Maskot/Maskot via Getty Images You really need to get going, but there are still so many things you forgot to talk about! This seems like the perfect time to try to fit them all in.
- Making plans for the next meetup.
Hero Images/Hero Images via Getty Images You probably already planned to come over for the next birthday or holiday, but just to be sure, you’ll discuss the details with the family as you make your way to the door.
- Everyone walks to the car together to keep talking.
middelveld/E+ via Getty Images You’re walking to the car but your conversation isn’t over, so it only makes sense that the other person follows along.
- Another round of hugs.
Thomas Barwick/DigitalVision via Getty Images Your hugs from earlier have worn off already. It’s time to refresh them!
- Waving goodbye from the car.
Noel Hendrickson/DigitalVision via Getty Images You’re finally in the car and backing down the driveway. The people who are staying behind shout out some last-minute reminders to drive carefully and to call when you get home.
This whole ritual may make it a long process to leave and get on your way, but we wouldn’t change it – or our other little family rituals – for anything.
Hinterhaus Productions/DigitalVision via Getty Images
It’s getting dark, or maybe the kids are getting cranky - either way, you know you’ve got to start wrapping it up and making your way toward the car.
Amy Newton-McConnel/iStock / Getty Images Plus via Getty Images
No matter how many people show up or how hungry they are, there are always leftovers. Don’t even fight it, just take your share.
Oliver Rossi/DigitalVision via Getty Images
Don’t leave anyone out! These hugs have to last until the next time you get together with the family.
shapecharge/E+ via Getty Images
Typically, the older people of the family will give some advice - welcome or not - on the best way to get home. Remember there’s construction on the highway!
JackF/ iStock / Getty Images Plus via Getty Images
Just to make sure the people who are leaving are extra careful driving home, they’ll be treated to several cautionary stories. You know, Mrs. So-and-So hit a deer just up the road last week so you’d better keep an eye out!
Maskot/Maskot via Getty Images
You really need to get going, but there are still so many things you forgot to talk about! This seems like the perfect time to try to fit them all in.
Hero Images/Hero Images via Getty Images
You probably already planned to come over for the next birthday or holiday, but just to be sure, you’ll discuss the details with the family as you make your way to the door.
middelveld/E+ via Getty Images
You’re walking to the car but your conversation isn’t over, so it only makes sense that the other person follows along.
Thomas Barwick/DigitalVision via Getty Images
Your hugs from earlier have worn off already. It’s time to refresh them!
Noel Hendrickson/DigitalVision via Getty Images
You’re finally in the car and backing down the driveway. The people who are staying behind shout out some last-minute reminders to drive carefully and to call when you get home.
How many of these can you relate to? Is your family’s ritual any different? Put in your two cents in the comments!
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